1. Can't Stop Thinking About The Other Person
No matter what you try, you can't stop thinking about the other person. You are rarely present in your life and you can't enjoy what is happening in front of you, instead you keep thinking about him/her. Even if months or even years have passed since you last saw or spoke with this person, he/she constantly appears in your thoughts.
2. Imaginary Arguments
Not only can't you stop thinking about this person, but you also have imaginary arguments with him/her. You constantly revisit past events that you shared with this person and imagine saying things you never actually said but now you wish you had. These imagined scenarios cause painful or stressful emotional reactions.
3. Relationship Karmic Loop
Maybe you feel like you have moved on because you no longer think of that person. However, you keep finding yourself stuck in the same relationship dynamics (betrayal, heartbreak, abandonment, abuse, co-dependency, etc.) that you once experienced with this person. Cords of attachments can keep you stuck in a relationship karmic loop where the same thing keeps happening over and over again even when you meet new people.
4. They Appear In Your Dreams
Cords of attachments can span multiple dimensions of consciousness. When you dream you visit the astral realm or the 4th dimension and if you have cords of attachment with someone then you will most likely see this person in your dreams. While dreaming you can reenact old dramas that leave you rattled or you can dream about fulfilling unconscious desires like getting back together.
5. You Feel Drained
The connection you have through cords of attachments is not a pleasant one. Cords of attachment contain the energy from unresolved issues and the negative emotions associated with these dramatic events. The negative energy from the cords of attachments disrupt the natural and harmonious flow of your auric field. And because you have an opening in your aura via the cord of attachment, your precious life force energy can be spilled and sometimes even siphoned by the person on the other end of that cord.
6. You Can't Forgive
Feelings of resentment or bitterness towards someone else is a strong indicator that you have cords of attachment with that person. When you hold a grudge with someone and you find it almost impossible to forgive them, you are drinking poison and expecting them to die. Although you might intuitively know that forgiveness is the right thing to do, cords of attachments are what prevent you from truly forgiving yourself and the other person for what happened.
7. Can't Get Them Out of Your Life
When you cut cords of attachments, it doesn't necessarily mean that a person will disappear from your life. Actually cutting cords of attachment is the best thing that you can do for ANY relationship. However, there are relationships that deep down in your Soul you know that are not for your highest good. Yet, despite all your attempts to remove that person from your life he/she keeps finding a way back in. This is a clear sign that you have cords of attachment with that person.
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